Foot in mouth disease

Do u have this common factor where u say things without thinking?

I have to be driven to completely crazy before I say bad things to people. People think I'm out going but really I avoid confrontation.
The thought of saying a bad thing about a person is to put a curse on them.

Don't get me wrong sometimes a little criticism can change a person if approached right. I just never approach mature people though. So those tend to have immature responses.

I suffer from those with foot in mouth. I have a very open mind but if you don't have the time to listen to me I won't give my attention to what you have to say.

If my opinion isn't heard AND given some real OPEN MINDED feedback, where what I have to say has made an imprint on the mind of someone close to me; I feel I am expected to comply to their way of life.
It's disrespectful to not listen to a loved ones point of view.

And because ppl have foot in mouth disease I avoid to approach them.
Therefor I slowly become attached to my little safe place to be unharmed by hurtful words.

One person is all it takes to change a persons life.
If you were that one person in someone else's life what would be you life changing words?
Would you speak a painful curse or would you listen to them and give a heartfelt encouraging response?

You could be that person to turn a frown upside down!