Stalker (n.) - one who follows and/or harasses someone, even after being asked politely to leave them alone; stalkers often have no life.
I don't mind being followed a little now'n'then. It's obvious really. I do put my life out there for the world to read. but really where do you draw the line?
I draw the line in any friendship if I get more than 18 text from that person in one day.
I draw the line in any friendship when they do all the talking and I do the listening.
I draw the line in any friendship if I have to pretend I'm not clever just to stop them from continuing their superior attitude.
I draw the line in any friendship when they write on Facebook or text you at late hours of the night (not just once but near every-night). [any human contact at ridiculous hours- many times- proves you haven't slept well and are not thinking straight]
Those things above provide enough information that this person does not think rationally and may be a risk to you... If it's hard to move around freely and you begin to hear less of other good friends; you know that this "stalker" is unhealthy for you.
I post this so you will know the next steps when you know someone is harassing you even after you have asked them to stop and leave you alone.
I hope no one really has to go through those steps.
Goodnight loved ones and happy stalking :)
I don't mind being followed a little now'n'then. It's obvious really. I do put my life out there for the world to read. but really where do you draw the line?
I draw the line in any friendship if I get more than 18 text from that person in one day.
I draw the line in any friendship when they do all the talking and I do the listening.
I draw the line in any friendship if I have to pretend I'm not clever just to stop them from continuing their superior attitude.
I draw the line in any friendship when they write on Facebook or text you at late hours of the night (not just once but near every-night). [any human contact at ridiculous hours- many times- proves you haven't slept well and are not thinking straight]
Those things above provide enough information that this person does not think rationally and may be a risk to you... If it's hard to move around freely and you begin to hear less of other good friends; you know that this "stalker" is unhealthy for you.
I post this so you will know the next steps when you know someone is harassing you even after you have asked them to stop and leave you alone.
- Write down what they have text or voice-mailed you
- Call your phone provider - they can stop that certain number from texting (but phone calls are a little different and can take some hours-calls go to your voice-mail but you are alarmed from your provider before you listen to it; that it was an unwanted number> then you can press deny)
- MOST important make sure close friends or family KNOW that this is going on! because some people could have serious problems and may be dangerous and want to harm you
- If necessary (like my case) contact police. They will evaluate the attitude this person gives you. Then you will be given forms to file of the information you have kept. You wait for a moment that upsets or terrifies you from your stalker; since you last had contact with the police. You must contact them promptly from then and they will serve your stalker a community slip of rules they must comply with. If they do not they will be held for abusing the law and your rights.
I hope no one really has to go through those steps.
Goodnight loved ones and happy stalking :)
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